Ms. Career Girl Confession: When I was in college I hid behind my major- big time. I felt smart and respected saying I was a finance major. I was proud that I was in a traditionally male dominated program and industry. I felt that having this major meant I was going to become an investment banker and make six-figures in my twenties. I was a self-proclaimed martyr for cute finance women of all kind.
HA! Who are we kidding here? I’ve never achieved straight A’s in my entire life even though I really did practically live at the library during college. The finance program really wasn’t that male dominated. And as if I could really handle working in an office for 120 hours per week! I am way too social, creative and ADHD for a career in i-banking.
I’m not sure who I was trying to prove all of this to but in hindsight, I was clearly on a mission to fill a hole in my soul.
I brought my pretentious attitude with me to my first job in financial sales. I assumed I would have the best sales and be the first to get promoted simply because I had a finance degree and the others didn’t. I was only fooling myself.
In many cases, your major doesn’t mean much after you graduate. It may give you peace of mind or an ego boost, but beyond that it’s pretty benign.
For the lucky few, a college major correlates directly to an initial career path: elementary education, nursing, etc. For the rest of us, a major is simply a jumping point.
What were YOU doing when you were 18? 20? Regardless of how ambitious and career focused you were, I’d bet money on the fact that only a handful of you knew yourself well enough to pick a lifetime career path. Even if you DID know yourself inside and out, you didn’t have enough experience to know what you don’t like.
In other words, squish your guilt with your stiletto.
Keep in mind that:
When writing this post, I made a list of my friends and family’s college majors and their current occupation. On paper, each seemed completely unrelated. Weird? No. Most people don’t end up going into what they majored in anyways. They may start out on that path and thanks to an unexpected event, their career changes course.
Many successful job seekers take their major out of the equation and pay attention to what is going on around them instead. These people most likely faced an unexpected event that they were open-minded enough to pay attention to and look at as an opportunity rather than a detour from their cookie cutter predetermined career path.
Sometimes this opportunity comes in the form of a person you unexpectedly meet. Other times you land an internship that seems random at first but then you fall in love with it. You may sit next to someone on an airplane that suggests you should interview with her firm. Or, you may finally start listening to your gut and admit that you really don’t want to pursue what you majored in for the rest of your life.
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