STRENGTHENING AND CREATING EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIPS! WHY IS IT SO CHALLENGING?
The subjects of love and relationships have always been the center of attention because of their controversies. Everyone holds a different opinion when it comes to such matters. It takes immense effort to achieve an effective and long-lasting relationship. Our imagination about relationships is sometimes over dramatic; what we see in romantic movies and songs is practically impossible. It’s a kind of unrealistic expectation that partner fantasies and dreams to be real. While growing up, many of us see relationships as nothing but merely casual talk and sex. We want to be right in bed and learn the easy sex positions to satisfy our partner and don’t bother about the emotions that flow along.
Men and women share different phycology altogether. When it comes to sex, women are dominant by the left brain, which caters to emotions and men by the right mind that sees pleasure. Understanding and respecting such fundamental differences in personality helps to build healthy relationships. Different cultures have different impacts on relationships with an ever-changing view, such that what works today may not operate a few months later.
WHAT WE CALL AS RELATIONSHIP STATUS TODAY IS A SERIES OF EVENTS;
The best time to introspect yourself, discovering oneself is more necessary before looking out for a partner.
After completing self-introspection, one starts looking for the compatible opposite sex for dating.
The phase that decides both of you can continue the journey further or its time to part ways and call for “THE BREAK UP” party, which is quite common these days as no one wants to be upset long.
If dating succeeds and lasts after several breakups, the next step a couple takes is naming their relationship by engaging with one another.
Post engagement: It’s time to eat that sweet that creates hue and cry, which is utterly different from all the phases mentioned earlier. It involves sexual intimacy now, followed by love, children with their relationship goals, and the cycle keeps going.
Amid Coronavirus, the world is battling with the virus on the one hand and relationships on the other. In these challenging times, patience is on the verge of depleting between the partners leading to separation and increasing divorce cases.
WHEN FRESHNESS IN A RELATIONSHIP BEGINS TO FADE! BRING BACK THESE ELEMENTS
SPEND TIME TOGETHER
When was the last time both of you spent some quality time together?
Suppose you are taking several minutes to think! It’s high time to revisit the memory lane.
Speak your partner’s love language, plan weekly dates, monthly vacations, appreciate each other’s strengths, and work on the weaknesses together. Turn off your gadgets and speak to each other, use body language, compliment, tease, be playful, focus on the positive, be open to the missing parts in the relationship, bring back that lost passion, and celebrate your togetherness.
In a long term relationship, partners start mirroring each other. They are each other’s best friend, guide and confidant. It’s always an excellent initiative to think about your partner’s needs before yours—a relationship where partners synchronize with each other’s choices, comforts, and values. A wise mind prioritizes its partner above everything else. It will support the other, maintain love and respect, give each other the best positions in the relationship, thereby adding freshness to a long-term harmonious relationship.
ADD SPARK TO INTIMACY
Intimacy plays a vital role in keeping a relationship young forever. A recent study shows going to bed together enhances relationships. Men and women are quite similar in many ways but wildly different sexually. Sex for women is almost the same as men but slightly less mind-blowing.
Just because men have orgasms very reliably, it was assumed women could too, and that’s a huge myth that leads women to have anxiety because it’s not happening quickly for them. Desire, arousal, excitement, plateau, orgasm, and relaxation work in entirely different ways for each gender. Understanding each other’s needs gives a better perspective to improve their sexual life, best positions, and creative sex.
Relationships are beautiful, but it depends on whether it is an asset or a liability. No one is perfect, and sometimes all it takes is someone’s imperfection that keeps us stay with them forever. Don’t hurry to commit your mind and soul to the other person, if you are seriously looking for a partner, remember the best things in the world take time to happen. It’s a wise saying, “Someone who lasts long won’t come easy and who comes easy, won’t last long.” Keep The Spark alive, heart, and mind clear, the right one will surely attract you.