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Why Is Everyone So Angry?

By Ms. Career Girl
Jan 31, 2022
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Note from Ms Career Girl editor: These days, America is more of a stewing pot than a melting pot. Elaine Parke’s TheHabits of Unity provides the “mental nutrition” to help us defuse the anger that’s keeping us divided. If you don’t read any other book this spring, or this year, I highly recommend this as the one you do read. We’ll change the world when we change our thoughts.

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          America is a pretty angry place these days. Formerly respectful spaces like school board meetings have become bitter battlegrounds. Some people are harassing healthcare workers and threatening restaurant staff for enforcing COVID protocols. Others are openly furious with the vaccine-hesitant. Everyone, wherever they stand on the (deeply divided) political playing field, is outraged about something.  

          Sure, anger is part of the human condition, but have things always been this bad? Elaine Parke thinks not—and she has a plan to get America the anger management tools it needs.

We Need to Listen to One Another

          “We’ve stopped listening to one another because we’ve become addicted to our own narrow and sometimes selfish points of view,” says Parke, author of The Habits of Unity: 12 Months to a Stronger America…one citizen at a time  (www.12habits4allofus.org). “And we seem to have lost sight of the notion that we’re personally responsible for our own behavior. 

          “It’s way past time for us to take a collective deep breath and treat others with dignity, respect, and civility—and listen to them—whether we agree or not,” she adds. “It’s urgent that we make this shift now.”

          Dialing down our ire is easier said than done. We are living in extraordinarily stressful times. But there’s more at play. Parke says we are shaped by the messages we consistently consume—and in today’s connected world, a lot of those messages come from our digital diet. 

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Social Media and News

          “Social media isn’t solely to blame for stoking our emotional flames—in fact, it was designed to be a source of information and to bring people together,” Parke clarifies. “But if your newsfeed is making you an angrier person, it’s on you to either log off for a few days or reassess the kind of content you’re engaging with. When we choose to focus on stories that are positive and nourishing, we go a long way toward resetting our emotional equilibrium.” 

          Parke’s The Habits of Unity is her attempt to help people take charge of what she calls their “Mental Nutrition.” Much in the same way that we (hopefully) approach the food we eat, we need to develop the discipline to make more nutritious mental choices every day. Her book’s 365 “one-magic-minute-a-day” motivationals make it easy to hardwire these choices into habit.

Change – One Minute at a Time

          With her simple, doable framework for uplifting ourselves, boosting our mental health, and practicing unity, Parke hopes to get everyone focused on the same branded behavior each month. The idea is that the sheer force of all that concentrated positive energy sparks a unity revolution that rises from the ground up and sweeps the nation.

          Yet, until that happens, we can leverage the power of The Habits of Unity on a personal level by forming one good habit per month:

  • January: Help Others
  • February: You Count 
  • March: Resolve Conflicts
  • April: Take Care of Our Environment
  • May: Be Grateful
  • June: Reach Higher
  • July: Become Involved
  • August: Know Who You Are
  • September: Do Your Best
  • October: Be Patient and Listen
  • November: Show a Positive Attitude
  • December: Celebrate Community, Family, and Friends

          Those who’ve tried it say the plan is easy to put into practice. It feels good, so you’ll want to keep doing it. And there’s a ripple effect. As you become more positive, centered, and respectful, others will be drawn to you and your relationships will improve.

          “As these ripples expand, they will improve the emotional climate in our country. And make it easier to seek common ground, instead of lashing out,” says Parke. “But we can’t sit around waiting for others to take action. Each American must recommit to making our country a welcoming, affirming melting pot—instead of a stewing pot.”

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About the Author:

Elaine Parke, MBA, CS, CM, NSA, is the author of The Habits of Unity: 12 Months to a Stronger America…one citizen at a time. For 30 years, her scalable and evidence-driven 12 habits of social unity model has transformed several million citizens and youth. In 1993, her monthly branded and colorful habit-forming model was deemed a “Social Invention” by the London Institute for Social Inventions.

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